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What to Wear for Sisterhood Round

calliemcvey
Jun 23
4 min read

If you're deep in recruitment prep mode, you already know that every round has its own vibe and sisterhood

round is no exception. This is one of the most personal, conversation-driven days of the entire recruitment

process, and your outfit should match that energy: cute, comfortable, and completely you.


Whether your school calls it Sisterhood Round, House Tour Day, or something else entirely, the dress code

lands in that perfect sweet spot, more casual than preference night, but still polished enough to make a great

impression. This guide walks you through exactly what to wear so you can walk into every chapter house

feeling confident and put-together.


What Is Sisterhood Round?


Sisterhood round typically falls in the middle of recruitment week, after the first round but before preference night. It's where chapters pull back the curtain a little, you'll hear more personal stories from sisters, get a feel for the culture inside the house, and have more genuine, one-on-one conversations than any other round.


The Sisterhood Round Dress Code: What to Expect


Every school is a little different, but sisterhood round almost universally falls into the sunday brunch category. You're in the sundresses-and-sandals territory.

you. Either way, the same principles apply.


Choosing Your Outfit


If your school leaves sisterhood round styling fully up to you, you have a little more freedom but the same general vibe applies.


Best Outfit Formulas


A Breezy Sundress

A sundress is a sisterhood round classic — easy, feminine, and effortless. Look for midi length, a modest neckline, and a silhouette that's comfortable to sit and move in. Soft florals, eyelet fabric, and solid pastels all work beautifully.


A Matching Set

A linen matching top and skirt is a chic, slightly unexpected choice that makes you look put-together. Neutral tones or soft pastels work best.


What to Avoid:

■ Denim in any form — shorts, skirts, or jeans

■ Athleisure or anything that reads as gym wear

■ Anything too revealing — short hemlines or low necklines

■ Overly trendy pieces that don't feel like you


Shoes for Sisterhood Round

You are going to walk — a lot. Sisterhood round means moving between multiple chapter houses, so your shoes need to be as practical as they are cute.


Flat Sandals — Feminine and Easy

A strappy flat sandal pairs especially well with skirts and sundresses.

What works:

• Strappy leather or faux leather sandals in tan, nude, white, or gold

• Simple toe-loop styles with minimal hardware

• Braided or woven sandals for a slightly boho feel

• Brands like Sam Edelman, Steve Madden, and Dolce Vita (all under $80)

Avoid: Rubber flip flops, platform sandals, or any sandal you haven't worn before — blisters during recruitment are a nightmare.


Espadrille Wedge

A nice espadrille wedge pairs nicely with a floral and spring color dress.


Jewelry: Keep It Simple and Intentional

Sisterhood round is about connection and conversation. Your jewelry should complement your look, not distract from it.


Piece What Works

Earrings Small gold or pearl studs, dainty hoops (small to medium), or simple drop earrings

in gold or pearl


Necklaces A delicate gold chain, small pendant, or simple pearl necklace. Avoid anything

chunky or bold.


Bracelets One or two dainty gold bangles or a simple beaded bracelet. Stack lightly, less is more.


The rule: If you're second-guessing a piece, leave it at home. Understated always wins during recruitment.


Hair for Sisterhood Round

Sisterhood round is a long day, and depending on your school's location, heat and humidity are real factors.


Plan your hair accordingly.


• Soft waves or a loose blowout with anti-humidity product

• A low bun or sleek low ponytail — polished and practical

• A half-up, half-down style with a simple claw clip or ribbon

• A neat braid or braided half-up if that fits your aesthetic


Whatever style you choose, test it before recruitment week so you're not experimenting on a high-stakes morning.


Sisterhood Round Outfit Checklist


■ Outfit is clean, wrinkle-free, and fits comfortably■ No denim — skirt is linen, flowy, or a polished sundress

■ Shoes are cute, comfortable, and already broken in

■ Jewelry is simple and intentional

■ Hair is set and humidity-ready

■ Bag is small and neutral

■ You feel like yourself, relaxed, polished, and ready


Pro Tips from a Sorority Recruitment Coach


1. Lay everything out the night before.

Outfit, shoes, bag, jewelry, hair accessories all of it. Recruitment mornings are stressful enough without standing in front of your closet at 7am.


2. Comfort is confidence.

If you're tugging at your hem or wincing with every step, it will show. The sisters you meet will feel your energy. Choose pieces that make you feel genuinely good.


3. Be memorable for the right reasons.

You want a sister to say, "She was the girl in the pretty linen skirt? I loved her energy." Subtle standout always wins over loud standout.


4. Stop trying to dress for a specific chapter.

Dress for yourself. Sisters can tell when a PNM is performing. The right chapters will love the real you and the right outfit helps you be the real you.


Final Thoughts: Sisterhood Round Is About You — Dress Like ItSisterhood round is one of the most genuine days of recruitment. The sisters you talk to want to know who you

actually are your personality, your passions, your vibe. The right outfit gives you the confidence to show up fully and authentically.


A linen skirt, clean sneakers or flat sandals, dainty jewelry, and a little intention go a long way. You don't have to overthink it, you just have to be prepared.


If you want help planning your full recruitment week wardrobe or feeling genuinely ready for every single round; sisterhood, philanthropy, and preference night that's exactly what Bid Day and Beyond is here for.



Callie-Rae McVey


 
 
 

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